Why Men Say 'No' to the Doctor (and How to Change It)

June is Men’s Health Awareness Month, a time for men to put focus on their wellness and prioritize the care that is necessary for their well-being. While this month serves a reminder for men to put their health back on their minds, it’s also a great reminder that men do not have to face the challenges in their health alone. Whether you’re a family member or friend, you can work to support the men in your life on the journey to building a medical home. 

One of the key issues men face in their health journey is stigma.

According to a survey ran by the Cleveland Clinic, 72% of men would rather do other tasks, like ho usehold chores, than visit the doctor. While every man’s story is different, many suffer from superhero syndrome, an inability to let other people help or let others take care of tasks. This extends to refusing to take time away from family or work to care for themselves – or even believing they would “bother” a doctor with an appointment.

“We men love to be seen as strong and brave. There’s nothing more courageous than a man taking charge of their health,” Dr. Gerardo Rodriguez, a primary care physician with Health Services of North Texas, says. “Whether someone has no health problems or a million, we men love to prioritize everything – but our own health.” 

What are some other reasons men struggle to visit the doctor – and how can we help? 

• Health Misunderstandings: Men can often underestimate the importance of a doctor’s visit because they think if there is no problem – there is no reason for a visit. However, an annual wellness exam can be the reason doctors catch health issues early for treatment. This includes colon and prostate exams – which checks for the most common cancers for men, a necessary routine for men as they age. Encourage your loved one to get an annual wellness exam, even if they belie ve they’re in tip-top shape.  
• Inconvenient Hours: Men often try to fill their schedules around their work and family, leaving them with little time for self-care. Some may see the usual doctor’s office hours, Monday through Friday from 8 a.m. to 5 p.m., as inconvenient. Others may even see the time it takes to become a new patient or visit for an exam as too large. However, many health centers offer staggered sc heduling and telehealth visits to accommodate patients’ schedules. Be sure to research which one fits the best for your schedule.  
• Fear of Outcome: Especially for older men, many fear that visiting the doctor will bring bad news or confirm suspicions about their health. This fear causes them to avoid the appointment – preferring to deal with the unknown rather than the confirmation. However, letting issues like diabetes or hypertension linger in the background can cause other health problems to arise. Early detection can help providers to set up a chronic care management plan – which leads to healthier, better outcomes.  
• Lack of Insurance: Financial worries are no stranger to men – especially for those who may prioritize their family’s needs above their own. According to the CDC, 6% of U.S. adults delayed getting needed medical care due to cost in 2023. Additionally, nearly 11% of U.S. adults are uninsured as of 2023. Many think a lack of insurance means they cannot get care – but federally qualified health centers like HSNT offer numerous ways to afford building a medical home. This includes prescription assistance, sliding fee scales, and more. Contact your local FQHC today to find out what financial assistance is available to you. 

Men are often expected by society and culture to put others’ issues first – and to prioritize less stigmatized issues like finances over personal health. Sometimes, all it takes is a single call to change this mindset, even if it’s just to schedule an annual wellness visit for peace of mind. Set an example for your son, brother, father, or another loved one today. To schedule your appointment with one of our providers, visit Health Services of North Texas to get an appointment in Dent on or Plano.